Happy Saturday!
In Lewis Carroll’s timeless classic, Alice in Wonderland, there’s a moment where Alice finds herself at a crossroads, quite literally. She encounters the enigmatic Cheshire Cat and seeks guidance with a simple question: “Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”
The Cheshire Cat’s response is as profound as it is simple: “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.” This exchange between Alice and the Cat encapsulates a universal truth about navigating through life — the importance of clarity in setting goals and direction.
Clarity of Purpose
Like Alice, standing at the crossroads, we often find ourselves at points in life where choices need to be made. Whether it’s choosing a career path, a niche for your online business, the right mentor, making a life-changing decision, or simply deciding what to do next, clarity of purpose is essential. The Cheshire Cat reminds us that knowing where we want to go is the first step towards finding the right path.
Setting Meaningful Goals
Goals act as our compass, guiding us toward our desired destination. They give us direction and purpose, helping us prioritize our actions and decisions. Just as Alice needed to know her destination to choose the right path, we, too must define our goals clearly. Whether they are short-term objectives or long-term aspirations, setting meaningful goals helps us stay focused and motivated.
Embracing the Journey
In Alice in Wonderland, the journey itself is as important as the destination. Alice’s adventures teach her valuable lessons about curiosity, resilience, and self-discovery. Similarly, in our own lives, the path we choose shapes our experiences and molds us into who we become. The Cheshire Cat’s advice encourages us to embrace the journey, knowing that each step we take contributes to our growth and understanding.
Adapting to Change
Life is unpredictable, much like Wonderland itself. Circumstances change, new opportunities arise, and sometimes, we must adjust our course accordingly. The Cheshire Cat’s cryptic nature symbolizes the need to be flexible and adaptable in the face of uncertainty. By remaining open to change and ready to pivot when necessary, we can navigate life’s twists and turns with greater ease.
Learning from Mistakes
Making mistakes is inevitable, but the mistakes (failures) are invaluable teachers. It’s natural to encounter setbacks and doubts. However, these setbacks do not define us. Learning from our mistakes, we understand the importance of resilience and perseverance despite failures.
Focus and Commitment
When you truly want something, you will dedicate yourself to it. You will focus on it, commit to it, consistently take action, and never give up!
Avoid distractions and the allure of new ventures. Focus on one plan until completion. Finish what you start, and resist the temptation of shiny objects. It’s through unwavering commitment that dreams become reality.
Consistency is key. Dedicate at least an hour each day to your goals. Whether learning a new skill, developing a business, or improving yourself, consistent effort compounded over time yields significant results. Focus and discipline ensure progress, turning small steps into transformative leaps.
Remember that every journey begins with a single step. Progress may seem gradual, but each small effort contributes to significant achievements over time. Patience and persistence are fundamental to sustained growth and success.
As we reflect on Alice’s encounter with the Cheshire Cat, we are reminded of the timeless wisdom embedded in this seemingly whimsical tale. The question “Which way should I go?” echoes in our minds whenever we face decisions. The answer lies not only in knowing where we want to go but also in embracing the journey with curiosity and resilience.
So, the next time you find yourself at a crossroads in life, channel your inner Alice and remember the Cheshire Cat’s advice. Define your destination, set meaningful goals, embrace the journey, and be prepared to adapt. In doing so, you’ll discover that the path you choose leads not only to your destination but also to self-discovery and growth.
The reason I bring all of this up is because this week, I find myself at a crossroads. Big decisions need to be made…job offers, and decisions on a clear path forward. I have been writing books in the health and wellness space, and with all this talk about niches and creating YouTube videos documenting your journey, I can’t help but want to diverge into two directions: Continue forward and add a new path into health and wellness.
Dean has been saying from the very beginning to choose one path and dedicate at least an hour to it every day. And I have to admit I am not abiding. I am doing too much instead of focusing on one thing and learning it and being a master at it. Yes, I write a weekly blog post, but I have not been blog hopping the “right” way and dedicating an hour a day to it. Yes, I have been posting on social media, but I have not been practicing for an hour a day, making videos and learning the algorithm. Yes, I started a YouTube channel, but I have not been learning the algorithm and spending an hour daily just on this. I have spread myself too thin and now it’s time to get clear on my path and my goals. Choose one path, have one clear goal, and spend an hour each day on this one goal, one traffic method, one platform. It is time to get really clear on a direction.
Time to take some great advice from the Chesire cat and figure out exactly what my end goal is and what path I want to take so I can sit down and figure out the exact steps I need to get there.
Have you been struggling with a decision? Is anything keeping you stuck? Have you fallen into the common trap of overcomplicating things? Are you doing too much? Comment below. I would love to know more about you and your journey.
Let’s ride from rookie to riches together,
To our success,
Alison Blaire
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This reminds me of something Thomas Merton said “People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.”
Sometimes we have to realize that in order to get to where we want to be we have to first go back the way we came, climb back down the ladder, forget about the sunk costs, and start over on the right path.
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Alison, that was a great post! I honestly feel the same way. Based on your account, spending an hour a day on each of the things you spoke of would mean a three-hour-a-day process, which is overwhelming. It’s so hard to split your mind into so many areas and expect to be successful in any one thing without getting completely burnt out. I love the Alice in Wonderland analogy because it is spot-on and very cleverly written. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it because it makes so much sense. I have an issue with focus and anticipating the difficult steps of the process. Instead of facing the challenge head-on, I ignored it and became distracted with something else. I ask myself daily, “Is what you are spending your time doing right now going to get you closer or further away from your goals”? Until now, I feel like I’ve drifted into territory I could easily get lost. Reading other blog posts like yours also helps to keep me on the straight and narrow path. Wonderful post!!!
I am learning to focus on one thing at a time. What I don’t get done can wait another day. I also value rest between the work I do. At such times, my dog Maso lies across my lap and I pet him with deep gratitude. These Boston Terriers are a breed like none other- affectionate beyond anything I’ve ever known. They can’t bear to be disciplined and abhor the word “no.”
He’s come to the right place.
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Alison, There’s so much wisdom to be found in Wonderland! Good luck in choosing your path. There are many paths to online success, I hope you pick the one you’ll most enjoy. To our success!
Nakina
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I agree, diversifying too much is like spreading yourself too thinly. Much better to concentrate on the one thing and get good at it. A very insightful, thought provoking post for which I am grateful.
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Alison, I enjoyed your post and your comparison to Alice and the Cat… It is so easy to get caught up in doing so many things that we end up spinning around in circles and loosing sight of our destination. Add additional jobs and job duties to our schedule and it is extremely easy to get side tracked. Thank you for helping me to “Re-Focus” on my destination! To our continued Success!
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Allison,
Wow I can certainly relate to this post. I have been undecided between keeping my momentum with affiliate marketing (even as slow as it is) OR move to my newfound niche: health and wellness. I know that in order to be successful I need to choose one. After long consideration I decided to go with health and wellness for a few reasons. It is something I am passionate about, I currently have a lot of knowledge in this area, and I feel more confident talking, sharing and posting about it. I guess I did ask myself the question “Where is it that I want to get to?” I know you will make the right decision for you! Here’s to your success!
Sherri
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Hi Alison,
This is a fantastic reflection on how the Cheshire Cat’s wisdom applies to our lives and careers. I love how you’ve connected the importance of clarity and focus to your own journey, especially when faced with big decisions and the temptation to spread yourself too thin.
Your commitment to narrowing your focus and dedicating consistent time to one path is a powerful step towards achieving your goals. It’s a reminder for all of us to avoid distractions and stay committed to our chosen paths.
Thanks for sharing your insights and personal experience. It’s always helpful to hear how others are navigating their journeys and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. I’m looking forward to seeing how you implement this clarity and focus into your work and success.
Meredith
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Hi Alison,
Great story and great blog entry! Being able to focus our energy and time on the one thing is definitely the way we want to go and be – and yet, as you so well mentioned, it’s a little harder to do!
Taking away all the distractions that we have around us is the definite first step to take and then take another!
Wishing you several successful steps!
All the best!
Alison when I was young, I used to thrive on the hustle and bustle of multi-tasking. Now days I like to think that with getting older I have also gotten a little wiser. I have had to slow things down and work through one thing at a time. Although this sometimes feels like getting nowhere fast I at least feel like I can better handle the hurdles that come which makes the wins that much more satisfying. Good Luck with yourself discovery as you have all the foundations you need to make your best decisions.
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Great words of wisdom Ken, I am with you. Starting to slow down and understand that the multi-tasking and doing a million things at once is not the best path to growth and success!
Alison, while I do try to keep things simple and uncomplicated, I am in fact struggling with a decision. As much as I love making faceless videos for publishing on YouTube, I do find this activity time consuming. Plus Dean has been suggesting that I run a regular live stream to increase that know, like and trust factor.
Still, I am just getting the hang of this blog hopping and sharing strategy that our coach Glenn advises on. And I figure that after our recent quarterly virtual live event, I need to more of this. And this will be my focus to perfect this strategy and seek out more external blogs and just plain do more of it.
I wish you well with this advisement from the Cheshire cat. I am typically a cat person but the one my roommate has only advises me to get out of the way or be prepared for the swats and bites, lol.
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Hi Alison – I just got to tell you I look forward to everyone of your posts. Are not only well written but offer practical and achievable solutions and advice to some of the common and not so common challenges we have in life. What I read this current post I wonder if you have been in my head because I have been thinking the same things. I’m going to try to apply this one thing that you so eloquently stated “Focus and discipline ensure progress, turning small steps into transformative leaps.” Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences with us and my hope is that we all find success and I look forward to seeing you at the top!
I love how you tied Alice in Wonderland to real-life decision-making. The Cheshire Cat’s wisdom is timeless and really hits home. It sounds like you’re at an exciting crossroads, and your honesty about spreading yourself too thin is so relatable- I’ve definitely found myself like this A LOT
Focusing on one path and dedicating time daily can definitely help bring clarity and progress. Your passion for health and wellness shines through, and I’m sure you’ll find the right balance. Keep embracing the journey!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts—really inspiring stuff.
Hi Alison, I like your parralel with the Cheshire cat. It’s indeed a nice allegory. I have also the bad habit of doing many things at same time and also overcomplicate them. I usually end up knowing many things without actually being good or mastering them. Difficult to be successful if I don’t stay committed to the process. Committing to something requires learning the lessons that have cleared all the doubts you may have on the pathway you took. That starts by knowing where you want to go.
Martin
Martin
Thanks for your thoughtful comment! I totally get where you’re coming from—juggling multiple projects can definitely lead to overcomplication and spreading yourself thin. Mastery often requires focus and commitment, which means tackling one thing at a time and fully investing in it. But it is so hard to commit and do one thing over and over when so many exciting ideas keep popping into the mind!
I feel like a broken records, because I find myself saying this often but setting clear goals and breaking them into smaller, manageable steps be a life saver and really help in maintaining that focus. It’s like charting a course before you set sail. When you know your destination, it’s easier to stay on track and navigate through the challenges.
Wishing you the best of luck in your journey toward mastery! Keep committed and you’ll surely find success. Here if you need anything!
Alison, Clarity and focus are so important when deciding on a path forward. Like Alice, we need to know where we want to go to choose the right direction. I’ve also been struggling with spreading myself too thin and not dedicating enough time to mastering one thing. It’s time for me to set clear goals and commit to them daily. Thanks for the reminder to embrace the journey and stay focused! Thanks Atif
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It is important to know where we are going. It like the man who goes up to the ticket counter at the airport and says i want a ticket. Where do you want to go sir? I just want a ticket. Strange huh. Using our rudder to guide us in the correct direction is all important.
I will say that it is important to know the destination so you can come up with the plan to get there, especially in the business world or anytime you are trying to make a goal a reality. But I will admit there are some days were I will set out on a walk with no destination just to see where life leads me, sometimes just following the music, these adventures allow for discovery. Different situations call for different levels of planning and spontaneity, being flexible and knowing when you need a plan and when you can let the universe guide you are crucial for life and all the lessons along the way!
What a great post Alison.
The analogy of Alice at the crossroads is deeply felt by anyone who has faced uncertainty and the need for clarity in life’s decisions.
Knowing where we want to go before we can decide how to get there is of course critical and then defining our destination, we can chart a clear path forward.
This feels like a critical key to plan out to be successful on our journey to destiny.
Thank you for the reminder.
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